In any relationship, communication is key to building a stronger bond. Ideally communication won’t be restricted to only certain parts of your relationship, but instead couples should communicate about sexual desires and preferences for a good sexual life. In any successful sexual relationship, communication is vital. Research clearly shows that discussing your sexual wants and needs with each other will lead to a better sex life and form a closer bond between you and your partner. Communicating about your sexual desires may also help build trust between you and your partner, and trust is the foundation of any relationship. For a healthy sexual or non-sexual relationship, you should be able to talk about medical concerns, physical concerns, disabilities of any kind, and your likes and dislikes in the bedroom.
Here are some ways to foster communication in your sexual relationship.
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Intimacy
Sexual and emotional intimacy is essential for a successful relationship and can be achieved through honest, vulnerable communication from both parties. Each person may have different ways of communicating with each other. Some are reserved in expressing themselves in sexual relationships, while others openly display their inner desires. Creating a comfortable environment where each person can talk openly about desires or concerns is essential. If you need help, you may find a relationship education class or visit a sex therapist. Make the relationship a priority and don’t ignore problems. Quickly address concerns. Attending the relationship this way will create more trust and intimacy.
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Talk about sex
Directing your partner physically or verbally during sex is an essential part of achieving a happy sex life. Your partner can do their best but will never really know where you want to be touched or kissed or if you like what is happening if you don’t tell them. You can gently direct them by talking about your preferences. Be clear about where and how you want to be touched or what helps with your arousal. Talking about sexual preferences is vulnerable and creates an important connection.