Today’s society is highly sexualized through many sources. Children are more exposed to sexual language, content, and behaviors before they are developed or prepared to handle them. This is why sex education for teenagers is highly recommended and very important. However, talking to teenagers about sex can be hard, and yet it is one of the most crucial ages. It is vital to create a healthy sexual foundation for teenagers, even though it is challenging. Educating your teenager about sex requires a lot of patience and clarity. It is essential to make them comfortable enough with the topic that they can discuss any concerns with you rather than turning to the misleading information they are exposed to in their daily life through the Internet and peers.
What is sex education?
Sex education for teenagers provides the necessary information and clarity to help them make healthy decisions about their sexual lives. Sex education may be offered in most schools. However, as a parent, elder sibling, or guardian, you can teach about sex with the values and perspective that is most important to them. Although it may be hard to break the ice, the responsibility of teaching about sex truly lies in the parent’s hands. Sex education helps teenagers understand a variety of sex-related topics and instills the values required to navigate a healthy relationship.
Here are some tips on how to break the ice about sex with your teenager.
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Prepare yourself ahead
Before approaching the topic of sex with your teenager, you must educate and prepare yourself. Consult your partner about it first to agree on which topics to bring up and the necessary boundaries. Update yourself about possible topics that need discussion. Update yourself on issues that teenagers are concerned about. Read some books or articles that provide accurate and reliable information. See the resources tab on this website.
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Be considerate of your teen’s opinion
When talking about sex, avoid being judgmental and instead use curiosity to understand your teen’s perspective. Listen and be considerate of your teen’s point of view and if it isn’t healthy, find a way to redirect them to a healthier path without discouraging them. Teach them how to develop healthy sexual relationships.
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Be clear and honest
No need to use silly nicknames for sexual organs or body parts. Use accurate terminology. Create a comfortable conversation and do not try to avoid any topic. If you don’t know the answer to a question, be honest and tell them you will find out and get back to them with an accurate answer. Be transparent and honest with your teen about any sexual topic you discuss with them.